Archive for June 2012

Tips On How To Keep Your Lips Looking Sexy

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Everyone knows that lips are one of the sexiest parts of a women’s anatomy. A body can be succulent and lustful, but when it comes down to it, it’s all in the face and if you have a gorgeous face paired with sexy lips, you’re just a knock out. Lips are inviting as they are soft. They’re sexy as we tend to play with our lips a lot, either by touching them while deep in thought or nibbling at them while nervous, or simply licking them to give them some moisture.

You most definitely want to take extra care of your lips this summer, luckily for you, we stumbled upon some really cool tips that we’re going to share with all of you!

Tips On How To Keep Your Lips Looking Sexy:

  • #1. For Kiss-ability, be sure to exfoliate your lips. Mix olive oil (or coconut oil) and sugar and give your lips a nice gentle scrub. This will make your lips totally soft, glowing and so very kissable.
  • #2. When you’re outside with the elements you need to lock in moisture in your lips. Anything such as Chap Stick, Lip Gloss, or Cocoa Butter will work fine. Basically, any product that comes in a stick contains dimethicone and waxes which protect your lips from drying out. Apply as many times as necessary.
  • #3. When you’re inside, you should add moisture to your lips. For inside moisture, products that typically come in a tube are recommended such as ointments and emollient creams.

We strongly urge you to take care of your sexy lips especially during the summer and they’re really easy to take care off. Worse case scenario,if you’re very busy gal and just don’t have time for a week’s lip scrub, have Cocoa Butter on a stick. Keep it in your pocket and apply it often on your lips. This is wonderful for your lips and will surely keep your lips looking soft and kissable all the time!

4 Tips On Dating Outside Your Generation

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Age is truly nothing but a number. If you have a connection with someone who is younger or older than you; try dating and see if it works out. Here are 4 Tips On Dating Outside Your Generation:

1. Don’t Pay Attention To Age- Instead of concentrating on the age different focus more on the psychological similarities you both share.

2. Know Your Limits- Don’t overestimate your partners or your ability to keep up. For example: A mid 20s woman is going out with a mid 50s man. She takes him out clubbing every weekend and when he wants a couple nights to rest at home. She finds staying at home boring and in time breaks up with him.

3. No Parent/Child Role- Try to avoid falling into parent/child roles. This will hurt the relationship that you are trying to build. One partner will end up scolding the other and treat them as a child. That is a big NO NO! View your partner as your equal.

4. Make Known What You Really Want- If you are looking to build a healthy and long term relationship; you should not date someone younger so in turn you could feel younger. Concentrate on your goals, common interests, and always communicate with your partner.

If you are ready to find that special someone then join free online dating sites. These 4 Tips On Dating Outside Your Generation are the tips that are going to help you with the age difference relationships.

Great Tips Every Woman Should Know

first date dating tips Great Tips Every Woman Should Know

When it comes to dating there is just so much to know. So many does and don’t rules to follow it becomes hard to keep up. So I’ve put together yet another list of first date No-No’s every woman should remember. And while everyone is different these are the top 5 date don’ts men said every women should know.

1. DON’T talk about your ex. (NEVER talk about your ex’s on a first date. It can come across as you haven’t gotten over them and leave extreme awkwardness!)

2. DON’T talk about sex. (Even if you’re planning on giving it up at the end of the night, sex is not a topic to have on a first date. You don’t want to give them the wrong impression and most men don’t want to picture you sleeping with anyone else. Call it childish, call it whatever; but it’s a FACT!)

3. DON’T get too personal or turn your date into a therapy session. (Talking about marriage/children and credit scores on a first date can be too much and an instant turn off. There is much more to know before you go there. Also no one wants to hear you rambling on about how hard life is. Everyone has problems and your first few dates is not the time to unleash all your negativity and baggage.)

4. DON’T over drink. (It’s important to know your limits. Don’t allow yourself to get tipsy or drunk. The more you drink the more likely you are to do or say something you’ll regret.)

5. DON’T show up late. That’s right not even fashionably late comes across as cute. In fact in can come across as rude, inconsiderate and be a complete turn off!)

Love Does Make You Smart

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There have been a couple of reasons why love makes you smart. Here are 4 ways that love makes you smarter:

1. Marry/ Get Involved With Someone Similar to You- Most stable relationships are those where people were similar in intelligence, adjustable attitudes, social status, and education levels. Even if one spouse is higher up with knowledge; over a course of time, that partner is able to pull up the lower-functioning to their level. This was done by a Seattle Longitudinal Study that took 169 couples and did a 7 year interval study between 1956 and 1984.

2. Holding Hands- Holding hands is a wonderful and intimate gesture, which makes you as a couple feel close to one another. It also helps you bring your stress level down. Women in the closest relationships have the greatest decrease in stress-related brain activity.

3. Kiss- You should kiss at least once a day, by doing this you release a bonding hormone called oxytocin and lower the levels of a stress hormone cortisol. Some researchers also discovered that once we do kiss we activate almost half the cranial nerves that affect cerebral function. Once this happens all the information of a kiss is brought into your brain, interacting with your neurons and making new connections.

4. Place Photos of Your Partner Up- Either put up the photos are on your desk at work, or on your night stand by your bed. Brain scans have shown that looking at your beloved activates a part of your brain associated with pleasure as well as focused attention and motivation.

Here is another fact, as simple as just being in the same room and you don’t even have to talk has proven to lower your blood pressure.

If you don’t have time to go out and meet new people; you can try free online dating. It’s simple and easy to set up a profile with pictures and some information about yourself.

Reestablish Love in Your Relationship

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Let’s face it, relationships are hard to maintain over the long run. These days, most end in divorce. If you want to have a long happy life together with your partner, then follow our advice here. It’s based on research conducted by couples therapist, John Gottman, who has collected data over 25 years.

The first thing is to be positive. Simply put, don’t berate each other. It is easy to fall into negative patterns of behavior, but this can be easily avoided with patience and positive reinforcement. In fact, healthy relationships have a 5-to-1 ratio of compliments over put downs.

The second thing is to try and create what Gottman calls an environment of “Fondness and Admiration.” In short, this entails displaying physical signs of affection such as hugging, kissing and general affectionate contact. Part of this is verbal too, so be sure tell your partner more often that you love them.

The last thing is to have romantic nights together. Once the kids come, this is really difficult. But with a little planning, you can be enjoying the physical part of your relationship in no time. All you have to do is leave the kids with a family member one night and get out of town. Go somewhere nearby on the cheap and make it fun. It can be a lakeside cabin, or whatever, but make it 1 night and about the passion.

With these steps, you can be reestablishing the love in your relationship in no time…

Dating Isn’t Just For Young People Anymore

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When people get older they have a difficult time meeting other singles in their age range of 40-60 years old. Most of the older generations are married, and there is more of a resistance to approach someone on the street and ask them on a date. No one wants to get embarrassed if the other person states that they are happily married. Or are dealing with other personal issues in their lives. So, to them getting into a relationship may not be top priority on their list. The usual spots that younger people go to are clubs, coffee shops, restaurants, or parties to meet people; but as you get older these spots are just not as desirable to attend too. Which makes dating for them that much harder.

Another major issue is that it seems as when people get older their self-esteem gets lower. People do not feel as though they are as attractive or youthful as they once were. Then it doesn’t help the women’s self-esteem when older men may continue to hit on the younger ladies while ignoring them. Half the time older women do not give off the proper signals to show that they are single.

They just want to have someone as their companion. Most are not looking to get remarried, but just to spend some nights with a special someone.

Because of these reasons it may be difficult for older people to find other single people to date. I strongly suggest using free online dating sites as a tool to move on forward and find someone to connect with. You can create a profile with pictures and information about yourself and of your interests.

How To Deal With Relationship Breakups

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It is never easy to deal with a breakup, especially if it’s from a long term relationship. Whatever the reason might be for the breakup, there are things that you can do to get through this difficult time. Even in the midst of the emotional roller coaster of sadness and stress, you have the opportunity to learn from the experience and grow into a stronger and wiser person.

Even when a relationship is not a good one, the pain is still great. This is due to the “breakup” represents a loss, not of just the relationship, but also of commitments and shared dreams.

To cope with this initial feeling of loss, you have to recognize that it’s OK to have different mixed feelings of sadness, anger, frustration, and confusion. Give yourself a break to heal and regroup. Make sure that you do not go through this hard time alone. It might be hard sharing your feelings with family or friends but it is part of the healing process.