Archive for August 2011

5 Tips On How To Find Dates On Facebook

facebook smileys 5 Tips On How To Find Dates On Facebook

Nowadays, you have to use every resource that is available for you to score a date. Dating over the years has become a huge burden and in all honesty it shouldn’t be this way. Dating is meant to be fun and spending time getting to know someone. Now it’s all about if this person meets 7 of the requirements on my list. If you are having a hard time meeting people and having amazing dates; well it is time to take matters in your own hands. Here are 5 Tips On How To Find Dates On Facebook:

Tip #1: Search Engine Becomes Your Friend

Look up your preference in the search engine within your area and see all the potential dates. If they look single by their default, send them a message saying “I came across your profile and you look interesting. Would you like to talk?”

Tip #2: Search Your Friend’s List of Friends

This method is very easy and you can get information about the person rather quickly through your friend. Once you get the green light to proceed with a message go for it. “I saw you on (insert friend’s name) list of friends and you seem very attractive. May I get to know you?”

Tip #3: Play Photo Tag

Once you and the potential date are friends on Facebook you can do some flirting in a cute way. Tag this person to some of your cute and funny photos it lets them know that you are thinking about them. As well as it opens doors for them to reach out and talk to you more.

Tip #4: Ask This Person Out

Now that you are both talking and getting to know one another it is time to ask them out. Invite this person for drinks, dinner, movies, or even mini golf. It is definitely time for you too to meet up.

Tip #5: Have Interesting Topics On Hand To Converse About

It is so much easier writing to someone on Facebook than actually talking face to face. Make sure to have some interesting topics to talk about before you go on your date. You don’t want the chemistry you had online to fade out in person.

Since you are already on the computer it is time for you to check out what Facebook has in store for you tonight! Good luck.

3 Signs It Was Just A Summer Fling

101 3 Signs It Was Just A Summer Fling

Lots of relationships begin in early summer and end by fall because they have ran their course. Many get caught up with the summer sensation of partying and going out that they forget that those suppose relationships could very well be temporary. Are you feeling like this guy is going to stick around for awhile? Well there are some signs that show your partner could just be a summer fling.

3 Signs It Was Just A Summer Fling:

Sign #1:

No Future Talk: If your guy hasn’t mention anything past September then he just views you as casual sex relationship. If a man can’t talk about a future (doesn’t have to be about marriage or kids, but maybe future trips or events) with his woman then he doesn’t see a future with her.

Sign #2:

Absolute Alone Time: It may be nice that you and your guy are spending all of this time alone with each other. But this could be a sign that you don’t mean enough to him for him to show you off to his friends. This will make breaking up with you all the more easier for him since you have no ties with any friends of his.

Sign #3:

Sex, Only Activity: You didn’t connect with him on a personal level, lets just be honest. It was more of a physical attraction and that it what it stayed as. You both enjoy the action that you are having between the sheets, and then you rarely connect on another level once the clothes are back on.

Don’t get depressed or stressed out that the relationship you were in was only a summer fling. Take it for what it was. You had an amazing few months with someone and shared hot steamy sex.

How To Build Courage and Confidence and Remove Fear and Self Doubt

courage 11 How To Build Courage and Confidence and Remove Fear and Self Doubt

Every human being is forced to deal with fear and self-doubt at some point in there lives. In fact it is only normal to face feelings of fear on a regular basis. Even the “bravest” of people face fear in their lives. The difference is those that come across as being “brave” don’t allow the fear to block them. To be brave does not mean to never have fear.

The word courage actually means “the ability to do something that frightens you” it is also known to means to have “strength in times of pain or grief”.

The first step in building courage is pushing yourself to move forward even when you are afraid. Remember that saying, “It is better have tried and failed then to never have tried at all”. This saying is so true! We must be willing to try new things even if we end up not liking it or being overly good at it. Push yourself beyond your security boundaries and see your confidence grow as you learn to accomplish new things.

Remove negativeity and negative people from your path and thoughts. To have courage is to be able to see the positive side of things. Rather then focusing on the negative set your thoughts on the positive. Don’t worry about what will happen when you fail instead focus on the joy that will come from doing it and trying something new.

Remember that this a step by step process. Don’t try and take on too much too soon. Focus on taking things one step at a time, putting one foot in front of the other and the other. Make your goals realistic and set up realistic time frames to accomplish new things. Don’t allow yourself to end up in further doubt and negativity by setting the bar too high. Your goals should be realistic and reachable. Think things all the way out and seek the smoothest process.  By taking it step by step you get to continuously overcome an obstacle and bring up your courage with each level you surpass.

Cheap Fun Date Ideas

top 10 cheap date ideas Cheap Fun Date Ideas

There’s nothing more impressive than a guy who actually plans out an original date. We get so bored and burnt out by the same old dinner and a movie routine. When a guy actually does something different it becomes an automatic turn on to most of us. Well, thats if it’s something we enjoy of course.There is just so much to do that planning the date should be part of the fun. It doesn’t matter where you live or where you are from, there are always places to go and things to see. I believe that there’s a new adventure around every corner if only you look.

Guys get major points for being able to plan a creative date. Just knowing that they took the time to really think it through and plan it out is such a turn on. So instead of being like everyone else, stand out right from the start. Plan a fun filled date that will surely leave a positive impression. Below are some ideas of fun yet inexpensive date ideas.

*A picnic at the park – This one can be romantic yet tons o fun. We see this kind of date all the time on tv yet so few men actually do this in real life.

*Hiking aka walking – Go for a stroll whether it’s on a trail, along the beach or around a popular spot. ENjoy the sight seining while being able to talk and get to know one another.

*Bike riding or rollerskating – Enjoy the sun and wind in your face while you get the heart pumping and probably some good laughs going as you reminisce of your childhood days.

*Go-cart racing/arcade – Let the child in you run free as you race each other around the track and play each others favorite video games.

4 Conversation Starters For A Man To Use On A Date

Dating Couple 4 Conversation Starters For A Man To Use On A Date

It is widely known that women love to talk about everything, while men not so much. If you want to ensure some kind of future date you better start learning how to converse with a woman. There are plenty of topics to talk about, but there are only a few that will you get brownie points for. Here are the 4 Conversation Starters For A Man To Use On A Date:

1. Your Career/Job: Women like hearing about how the guy they are seeing or dating work went for the day or week. Discuss what you do and anything that went on for you during your work day. Even if you are not working at your dream job yet tell her about your future career plans and what you would like to achieve.

2. Your Childhood: Women love hearing about your past, especially your childhood. It gives them a sense that they can know you better and relate to you on a more personal level.

3. Your Future Plans: Discuss any future plans that you have whether they are about a dream house you want to purchase, a career change/improvement, or if you are further on in the relationship discuss about your plans of getting married. Sharing the same long term goals and interests makes the relationship grow stronger.

4. Compliments/Appreciation: Telling the women that you are into that you truly appreciate her and giving heartfelt compliments will really win you over. As well as letting her know that you are there for here.

Implementing these topics in your conversational log with truly impress any woman your are dating or in a relationship with.

How To Plan A Date & Things To Remember

101Dating Tips for Shy Guys bg How To Plan A Date & Things To Remember

BEFORE THE DATE

Before planning your date find out some things about her/him.
(a) Does she/he have any allergies or favorite foods?
(b) Does she/he consider themselves to be a fun spirit or romance seeker?

This will help you to decide on where to go for dinner and whether to plan a fun adventurous date or a calm relaxing “romantic” one. Give your date just enough information about the date so that they can dress appropriately. But don’t give them too much information a little suspense can give a great thrill. (Not to mention it’ll keep them a little on the nervous yet eager to know side and give you a little more sense of confidence/control.)

Date Tip Do/Don’t… Do plan a date that leaves room for laughter and great conversations. Try and go for something fun and spontaneous (go cart racing, miniature golf, painting/pottery class, poetry lounge, etc). Don’t plan a date that involves going to a movie or a nite club for a first date! It leaves room for too much awkward silence and uncomfortableness.

Think ahead… Mentally plan out at least 3-4 things you can do. Remember not every date will be a match made in heaven and last all the way through. But if things are going good, you won’t want to run out of things to do; killing the flow of the date. However, if things aren’t going as well as you’d like and that spark isn’t there, you can end the date at any time. This is another reason you don’t want to tell them too much, so you don’t end-up feeling obligated to keeping the date going.

3 Ways To Break First Date Nerves

Good first date 3 Ways To Break First Date Nerves

Everyone gets nervous when they go on their first date, especially when it is someone that you think you might really like. It is only natural because you are hoping everything goes well and that the person likes you. There are ways to calm yourself down before the eventful night. Here are 3 Ways To Break First Date Nerves:

1. Write Down Your Feels: Sometimes transferring your thoughts onto paper takes the weight off your shoulders of what you are worrying about.

2. Call A Friend For Support: When you get extremely nervous call up one of your friends to give you some words of encouragement. Hearing a familiar voice calms the nerves.

3. Take Deep Breaths: It’s a simple but effective way. Deep breathing slows down your adrenaline of nerves.

Once you can master these steps, every date you go on will be smooth sailing. You don’t have to worry about getting too nervous, nauseous, or have the feeling of throwing up on your date. That last one would be a huge deal breaker for your date. Enjoy the dating world the way it was meant to be!